You Have 3 Options In Treating Colleagues...

Joost
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In the workplace you can not always change how you are treated by others. But you can change how you treat your colleagues. You have three options.

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Option 1: As disposable assets

The first option is to treat your colleagues as disposable assets. You treat everyone as if they are interchangeable, replaceable and discardable—as the means to an end, as throwaway people. You use them when you need them, and drop them when they become redundant.

Option 2: As errant children

The second option is to treat your colleagues as errant children. You treat them as 12-year olds who cannot be trusted, who need to be watched constantly—as if they represent uncertainty, and the potential for failure and conflict. You demand obedience. You control, protect and discipline as needed.

Option 3: As responsible adults

The third option is to treat your colleagues as responsible adults. You treat people in the workplace as you would treat friends, neighbours and other adults you come across in your private life. They are grown-ups, capable of making their own decisions and handling responsibility. You respect them as other adult human beings.

The choice is all yours. We would highly recommend the last option. It is better for yourself, your colleagues, and your business.

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John harvey

John harvey

So many companies get this wrong! Happy staff deliver a better CX for your clients and stay with you longer.

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Kaboel Karso

Kaboel Karso

I don't take my colleagues for granted. We all agree that we have a never-ending job in letting the relationship with our partner at home works. Why shouldn't I work on the relationship with my colleagues, while I spend (awake) more time with them than with my family? So I definitely treat my colleagues as _responsible_ adults

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Simone Beerepoot

Simone Beerepoot

Thanks, Joost, for this concise and specific way to put it. So true that everybody has a choice in how to treat others. And I may add also yourself. Treat yourself as an adult and it is much more difficult to treat others differently.

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Chris

Chris

I have experienced a combination of Option 1 and Option 2. "Command & Control", yet, happy to dispose the employee if he/she won't "function" or "comply". I call this management of robots.
This is toxic work atmosphere.

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jpmort

jpmort

Hang on a minute, there is a fourth option; like 3 but recognising that people are what your organisation is, and we together are all able to bring our whole selves to work to apply ourselves to teaming up and achieving our purpose. But it has to go to the heart of how we structure, manage and operate.
This what Toyota have done, where they reject technology in favour of people and their abilities. They call it 'respect for people' but that phrase does not truly describe their true attitude.

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Ivano

Ivano

since a couple of month I feel like everything is sliding into option 2.
every job I check is not done properly or not done at all...

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Beth

Beth

Humans are not resources - all humans have resourcefulness in them. If we forget that or don't believe that - what was the point of hiring people in the first place?

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